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Be clear, be specific about what you want regarding finding your marvelous match.

I’m enjoying listening to the rain on the roof as I post up the last few steps to manifesting your marvelous match. In doing so I came across a note to my self about a topic that I have been wanting to elaborate on.

My note reads:

Clarify the differences of “I want to meet someone who…,” is a whole lot different from “I want to date…,” is very different from “I want a life partner who…”

As you read this you probably think “Well that’s obvious.” And it should be obvious. My question to you is “Which one do you say to yourself? Which one do you tell others?”

“I want to meet someone who…” simply tells us and the universe that you would be pleased to meet someone with the traits listed in your 40 Something List. They might sit next to you at a concert or on an airplane. Your meeting may be brief and your interaction ends when the concert hall lights come up or the plane lands. Then they walk out of your life.

Do you call out, “But wait, come back, you have everything I’ve been looking for in a partner”? You probably sigh as they vanish. And then with your next breath inhale the moment, trying to hold on to the specialness of the ephemeral encounter.

“I want to date…” gets a little closer to the truth of the matter, but it does not convey the entire essence of what you seek. I’ve heard many times that someone was dating a wonderful person, one who embodied (almost) everything on their 40 Something List, only for them to later discover (sometimes months later) that their date was not interested in a life-long commitment.

“I want a life partner who…” tells yourself, me, your brother, uncle, best friend and the universe what you truly seek—your marvelous match, your champion, your special someone with whom you want to spend the rest of your life.

It is vital for you to use specific words to communicate verbally and energetically what it is that your heart and your soul desires. Each time you think about or speak about manifesting your marvelous match, make sure your brain, heart and mouth are using the same vocabulary. Are your brain, heart and mouth communicating the same thing?

Or is your heart saying you want to marry your life partner, while your brain interprets it as you want to date someone who encompasses your 40 Something List, because you have to date them before you marry them? And your mouth interprets it out loud as you want to meet someone, because you have to meet them before you date them before you can spend the rest of your life with them.

Get clear and specific. It’s not difficult if you spend a little time paying attention to what you think and say and clearly communicate what you want regarding your champion.

Hopefully this will inspire you to continue moving forward on your journey to manifest your marvelous match.

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Have you slipped up on specificity and clarity about your desires?

How are things progressing for you?

Have other bits of life interrupted your search?

Have you needed a little nudge to move forward?

And if you have met your champion, whether or not you’ve completed all 14 steps and 3 tests, please post in the comments below your good news.

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